When family disputes trigger parallel proceedings—such as simultaneous custody, divorce, or asset disputes in different jurisdictions—they create risks of conflicting custody orders, inconsistent property rulings, heightened emotional stress, and enforcement difficulties; best lawyers respond with a focused, step-by-step strategy: immediately map all proceedings and applicable laws, retain experienced family law counsel in each forum and appoint a lead coordinating lawyer, seek urgent interim relief (custody orders, temporary support, asset freezes) where needed, harmonize pleadings and evidence to avoid contradictory positions, implement confidentiality and child-safety protocols, use targeted discovery and forensic accounting for asset tracing, pursue mediation or other ADR to narrow disputes, consider procedural tools (stays or consolidation) to reduce duplication, plan enforcement and appeal routes across jurisdictions, and maintain clear, empathetic client communication throughout so legal and welfare outcomes are consistent, timely, and protective of the family’s interests.